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Using Curiosity In Recovery

Curiosity in Eating Disorder Recovery.

Having recently made more progress in recovery – in being able to make changes – eat more, accept weight gain at any rate & generally feel more relaxed & determined on putting in the necessary recovery action, I have been evaluating what it is that has changed in my approach.

One area I will speak more about in a future post is having adopted a ‘resigned to recovery’ mindset, which has helped.

The other mindset I have been using is to approach recovery & necessary recovery action with curiosity.

Asking the question… ‘what will happen if….’ :

Whether this is if I eat x amount every day or if I eat x type of food or if I rest much more or if I aim to gain 10 kg in a week!!

What will happen if I take a risk in recovery that my eating disorder really really screams at me not to?

I have begun to see the recovery plan I am currently using as if it is an experiment… a scientific experiment if you like in which the plan is my method & I carry out the approach for a set period of time & then evaluate the outcomes.

The method must not be diverted from & in carrying out the experiment, I am in charge of executing it & I am incredibly curious as to what the results might be!

I am not sure why, but somehow this approach is helping me make the changes that previously I found too terrifying to commit to, no matter how much I wanted to.

In adopting a scientific or almost childlike curiosity to recovery, feeling excitement at the possible outcomes, I feel I have taken the ‘what is the worse that could happen’ question many use, one step further… Perhaps putting a more positive spin on it…

Rather than be curious about what the worse is that could happen, adopt curiosity into what is the best that could happen… or even just a neutral fascination with the future shape of life if a new recovery approach were adopted?

Of course, this mindset won’t work for everyone, but if you have never tried it then give it a go – it helps me & maybe it will you too!

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